Agreed, Vicky (obviously).
iZelk, I'm not positive as to which server you were muted on (unless it's all of them), but it doesn't seem out of your league to do. I refrain from holding grudges against people because they're fairly nice once you get through their rough past, and you were pretty decent in the Survival shout whenever I was on, very relaxed.
To me it seems like you want to drive onwards without looking at the road and surveying who you might run over (been playing a lot of State of Decay lately, sorry). You seemed to think you were doing good when taking a spawner you'd found, but you ignored any plea to leave when you definitely knew it was someone else's. You were also muted for what I can assume was another act in which you ignored the pleas of other players.
Believe me, hot-headed behaviour may feel the most natural, but people can fall into some very deep pits with that sort of thinking. Even I've been through it; however,
I take what I have, bottle it up, and write ten paragraphs in MLA format to describe to a person the reasons and regulations behind their ban and then post a little
at the end to display it being a "show no mercy" flame post. Flint and tinder reminds me of being triumphant, but it also reminds me of how your flames can burn you right back in the arse (pardon the French).
So, for all TL;DR viewers: Be kind to your peers, respect what Staff members have to say, and think about how moral something is before you do it. iZelk, joining or leaving is your choice, and nobody can tell you otherwise. Sit on your mute for a few days, stretch your legs, and come up with another appeal. Admit what you did wrong, how you've come to terms with what you did, and what you'll continue to do to keep your standards above your mute. Remember: This is a video game. We play it for fun, not to run. No judgement here if you continue playing.